Friday, December 27, 2019

Combining the Greats

A few years ago I stopped eating refined sugars for 12 months, just to see if I could do it.  And I did!  My next goal was to get on a regular exercise program and keep it up 3-4 days a week-something that I was unable to do ever since I began exercising at age 13.  This was a lot harder than I had anticipated.  But, right now I almost always get my workout in 4 days a week every week and every month.

Now, I have a dream of doing them together!  No refined sugar with 4 days a week of exercising.  Starting December 31st 2018-June 2018.  I decided to do 6 months just because I like refined sugar and don't plan on veering away from it forever.  I do these things to challenge myself and also to do what many people can't do.

3/17/19

I have to say, going off of sweets and exercising has gotten my butt and hips quite small.  Which to me means that the sugar I was eating was being stored away for later! I decided to prolong the sweets/sugar until August because I feel so good!  January was rough because I was eating my cravings in salty foods like potato chips and crackers, so I went off of those mid month.  I did not lose any weight in January from the scale, but I could see a difference in my body.  February I lost 2 lbs, which is fine with me because it was a 1/2 pound a week and I didn't feel deprived.  Ive been working out with Destiny twice a week where we try to do a fairly difficult workout, and the I have been swimming 45 minutes once or twice a week.  Ive seen changes in my hips and butt like I said, my legs have gotten thinner (from loss of muscle but also fat) and a difference in my arms.  The last thing to go seems to be my tire, but its only been 2 1/2 months of "combining the greats" so I am ok with the results!

5/26/19

I swam an hour last week!  Ive never done that but I thought I would give it a shot because I am trying to get more cardio in and since I can't run anymore (at least consistently because of my knee-trying to save it) I need to find a new exercise to get my cardio in.  Ive veered toward swimming, pilates, yoga, tabata, HIIT, walking, and some weight training (mostly resistance with my body).  I think these groups are easier on my body but help get me strong but not large like it did when I was doing weight training last year.  I just had a junk day where I ate whatever I wanted that I haven't been eating since December and it was ok, but I definitely prefer the healthier lifestyle.  My drive to workout has increased since school has gotten out, so I hope to lean out this summer!

10/27/19

Well look at this, I haven't written in almost exactly 5 months!  Ok, so working out since August has been great!  I have been attending workout classes 3 days a week (HIIT, Cardio dance or hip hop or rarely zumba, body pump) and they have been really great.  I decided about 2 months ago to stop eating refined carbohydrates for dinner and I saw a little difference, not much though. Then, I started to eat less chips, then I decided to eat only refined carbohydrates for one meal for the majority of the week and I will tell you, it has worked!  I think I may have an more of an intolerance to gluten than I thought, like maybe it was causing inflammation in my body and somehow causing me to keep weight on.  But, I also just eat 3 meals a day and try to eat 3 servings of veggies and 2 servings of fruit every day as well.  I am not counting calories but I do predict I am eating at a deficit of 1400-1600.  I discovered if I cut out my cereal in the mornings and just had my pb&j I have been eating all semester then that would help cut calories.  I will say I have been hungry, but if I just ignore it it will go away.  Which is not something I was hoping to do, but I guess to be at a deficit that can be a part, a big part.  I don't have the energy or time to eat every 2 hours or 3 hours and I also enjoy being hungry to eat a meal so eating consistently is not for me.  But I am finally trying to eat well and exercise consistently and I am succeeding!  It is so hard to combine the two, it has taken me so long.  I am meeting up with some friends in Dec and the last time I saw them I did not feel comfortable in my own skin, I think I looked so bloated and large.  So, it is motivation but I think I am keeping it up until I get comfortable in my own skin again.  I haven't had that since the beginning of my marriage and that will be 3 years in February!

12/27/19

I will say, the holidays have a way of effing up everything you've done if you are not careful.  I think I put on a couple of pounds since the beginning of our trip, but I did not allow myself to totally screw it up.  I also have been unable to workout this week at the gym (which I prefer to do to not hate my living space) because of my cut right index finger, so that has been annoying.  But before our trip, I was proud of what I had accomplished-eating mostly well and exercising consistently.  Now that i got both down, it's time to up the ante next year!  I did drop weight, scale and inches.  I am borderline 6/8 size pants, my legs are smaller, my arms are slightly smaller, before vacation my love handles were smaller.  So, I say as hard as it was to learn and teach myself to eat right AND workout at the same time, I call this year a success! 

***update 8/9/2020

I have FINALLY been able to combine these 2!! Exercise and eating right! I have been eating right (80/20 rule) and exercising 5 days a week (1 hour) for almost 6 months now . I think trying and failing and trying again is key in this.  I just kept going and working harder and now I feel like I am seeing the results I have always wanted to!  Anyway, so moral of the story-DONT' EVER GIVE UP!!! You will get there eventually if you want to!! 

Sunday, October 20, 2019

Note from a sister

This is a note from my sister that she left on my desktop my freshman year of college.  So, 2007 roughly.   I found it in my files on my old drive that I was clearing. I thought it was really sweet, especially because I didn't spend a lot of time with Destiny in my 20s.  When she was at college, I was still at home and when I went to college, she went to Taiwan to teach English and then on her LDS mission to Hong Kong.  We have time together now because we are in the same area, so that's good. 


Hey sister of mine,

Thanks so much for letting me crash at your apartment and sleep on your bed for 2 nights!  It was very comfortable and I slept very well.  I like your roomies they seem really nice too! 


Thanks for going dancing even though it seemed a little like you didn't want to. I hope you had fun. I know I did. So thanks for indulging my wish,



I just wanted to let you know. I love you.  You're a pretty cool person and the light of the party.  I hope we can get to know each other more and have more fun in the future. 


Study hard this week for your finals. I know you'll do great if you just take the time. But also have fun because that's important too. You are a beautiful person inside and out and i'm proud to call you my sister.

I love you and have a great week. I'll see you in 6 months.  You can keep convincing me to move out here.

Merry Christmas, Happy Birthday, Happy New Year, and other important holidays. I'lll call you and I have skype so you can call me too.

BYE

PS. YOU CAN keep convincing Colton and Lauren that I'm the more amazing aunt so when I see them again they'll actually give me a hug! HALOL

Your most amazing oldest sister,

Destiny